Today’s my buddy Bob Wallack’s birthday. So, I thought I’d repost this piece I wrote about him a year ago this past August. He died of lung cancer about 11 years ago. Damn I miss this guy!
Friday's w/Bobby Recollected
Bobby believed
staunchly
in putting
carrots in meatloaf,
garlic in everything,
the more butter
the better,
and salt,
lots of salt!
He grew up
within spitting distance
of Julia Child,
idolized her
and cast iron skillets
of any and every size.
He loved Hersey bars and barbeque, cowboy hats and water sports, so he said. He believed in blue jeans and bucks, but more strongly in the religion of tie Weejuns, gray flannel slacks, crisp oxford cloth button downs, bow ties and blue blazers, always appropriate for any occassion, in his opinion. Volvos reigned supreme, no matter the model or vintage or their condition, was his conviction. He loved winter car rides filled with a mix of a little Camel smoke, a faint whiff of gasoline, worn leather seats and a hint of weed wafting through, Paul Simon or Diana Krall waxing on in the background. With his P1800 hugging low and tight in the turns of the two-lane backroads between Amesbury and Exeter, it was mostly just quiet time together, little needed to be said, the brotherly silence understood and respected.
Friday counter lunch of chowder, coffees to go, a walk to campus for a quick stroll through their art gallery, solely to see a Picasso for free. Heading back South, Fall colors streak by, an occasional glimpse of the shimmering surface of Lake Attitash flickering through the increasingly bare trees. Carriage Town, always calm and quiet, narrow streets lined with old brick mill buildings and bisected by the Powwow River flowing under the roundabout in the center of town. Down the street’s where Bobby’d park before heading back to his office at The Amesbury News. We’d just look at each other and smile: "Nice lunch!" "Indeed!"
It doesn’t take much for our soul to be satisfied and soothed. Days like you described so eloquently may seem unremarkable to an outsider, but to share, even create, those days with a soul mate make them special. God bless Bobby. A maverick that knew how to enjoy life. The Bobbys of this world are increasingly rare. The photographs that went along with this damn med fine piece of writing are gorgeous, but the one of Bobby cooking really captures the essence of the man. Everything under control here, just keep those cigarettes a coming!
Thanks for sharing such an inspiring piece.
Richie! Thank you for giving me a glimpse into your dear pal. Recently a friend brokered an introduction for me, describing the guy I'd meet as "a real character." I thought long and hard about that phrase. What constitutes a 'character?' The definition still eludes me, but whatever it is, it's this Bobby cat.
More importantly, though, I missed YOUR birthday this week! I'm sorry about that and sorry you and your boy Bobby aren't headed out for a long Friday lunch at a great counter. Lotsa love!